DEALING WITH IRRATIONAL CO-WORKERS
 
Nothing can reduce your happiness faster than an argument with an irrational co-worker. You canít win irrational people over to your side by your superior reasoning abilities. And you canít talk them into getting inside abandoned refrigerators and closing the door to see if the light goes out. There simply arenít that many abandoned refrigerators. If you use the refrigerator in the break room, everyone will start whining about how thereís no room for yogurt. Until there are more refrigerators, or less yogurt, you will find yourself in frustrating discussions that can have no good endings.

Trying to win an argument with an irrational person is like trying to teach a cat to snorkel by providing written instructions. No matter how clear your instructions, it wonít work. Your best strategy is to reduce the time you spend in that sort of situation.

I have developed a solution to this problem. It is based on the fact that irrational people are easily persuaded by anything that has been published. It doesnít matter who published it, or what the context is, or how inaccurate it is. Once something is published, itís as persuasive as anything else thatís ever been published. So I figure that what you need is a publication that supports all of your arguments no matter what they are. This is that publication.

I have collected the most common arguments made by irrational people into a handy reference guide and titled it ďYou Are Wrong Because.Ē Circle the irrational arguments that apply to your situation and give a copy to the person who is bugging you. Look smug, as though this were conclusive evidence of your rightness. A rational person might point out that just because something is written down doesnít make it so. But since youíre not giving the list to anyone with that much insight, it doesnít really matter. What matters is that you will feel as though you brought closure to a potentially frustrating situation.

 

You Are Wrong Because:

 
For your convenience, I have circled the brain malfunction(s) that most closely resemble(s) the one(s) you recently made on the topic of (fill in topic):
 

 

1. AMAZINGLY BAD ANALOGY
Example: You can train a dog to fetch a stick. Therefore, you can train a potato to dance.

2. FAULTY CAUSE AND EFFECT
Example: On the basis of my observations, wearing huge pants makes you fat.

3. I AM THE WORLD
Example: I donít listen to country music. Therefore, country music is not popular.

4. IGNORING EVERYTHING SCIENCE KNOWS ABOUT THE BRAIN
Example: People choose to be obese/gay/alcoholic because they prefer the lifestyle.

5. THE FEW ARE THE SAME AS THE WHOLE
Example: Some Elbonians are animal rights activists. Some Elbonians wear fur coats. Therefore, Elbonians are hypocrites.

6. GENERALIZING FROM SELF
Example: Iím a liar. Therefore, I donít believe what youíre saying.

7. ARGUMENT BY BIZARRE DEFINITION
Example: Heís not a criminal. He just does things that are against the law.

8. TOTAL LOGICAL DISCONNECT
Example: I enjoy pasta because my house is made of bricks.

9. JUDGING THINGS WITHOUT COMPARISON TO ALTERNATIVES
Example: I donít invest in U.S. Treasury bills. Thereís too much risk.

10. ANYTHING YOU DONíT UNDERSTAND IS EASY TO DO
ExampIe: If you have the right tools, how hard could it be to generate nuclear fission at home?

11. IGNORANCE OF STATISTICS
Example: Iím putting ALL of my money on the lottery this week because the jackpot is so big.

12. IGNORING THE DOWNSIDE RISK
Example: I know that bungee jumping could kill me, but itís three seconds of great fun!

13. SUBSTITUTING FAMOUS QUOTES FOR COMMON SENSE
Example: Remember, ďAll things come to those who wait.Ē So donít bother looking for a job.

14. IRRELEVANT COMPARISONS
Example: A hundred dollars is a good price for a toaster, compared to buying a Ferrari.

15. CIRCULAR REASONING
Example: Iím correct because Iím smarter than you. And I must be smarter than you because Iím correct.

16. INCOMPLETENESS AS PROOF OF DEFECT
Example: Your theory of gravity doesnít address the question of why there are no unicorns, so it must be wrong.

17. IGNORING THE ADVICE OF EXPERTS WITHOUT A GOOD REASON
Example: Sure, the experts think you shouldnít ride a bicycle into the eye of a hurricane, but I have my own theory.

18. FOLLOWING THE ADVICE OF KNOWN IDIOTS
Example: Uncle Billy says pork makes you smarter. Thatís good enough for me!

19. REACHING BIZARRE CONCLUSIONS WITHOUT ANY INFORMATION
Example: The car wonít start. Iím certain the spark plugs have been stolen by rogue clowns.

20. FAULTY PATTERN RECOGNITION
Example: His lust six wives were murdered mysteriously. I hope to be wife number seven.

21. FAILURE TO RECOGNIZE WHATíS IMPORTANT
Example: My house is on fire! Quick, call the post office and tell them to hold my mail!

22. UNCLEAR ON THE CONCEPT OF SUNK COSTS
Example: Weíve spent millions developing a water-powered pogo stick. We canít stop investing now or it will all be wasted.

23. OVERAPPLICATION OF OCCAMíS RAZOR (WHICH SAYS THE SIMPLEST EXPLANATION IS USUALLY RIGHT)
Example: The simplest explanation for the moon landings is that they were hoaxes.

24. IGNORING ALL ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE
Example: I always get hives immediately after eating strawberries. But without a scientifically controlled experiment, itís not reliable data. So I continue to eat strawberries every day, since I canít tell if they cause hives.

25. INABILITY TO UNDERSTAND THAT SOME THINGS HAVE MULTIPLE CAUSES
Example: The Beatles were popular for one reason only: They were good singers.

26. JUDGING THE WHOLE BY ONE OF ITS CHARACTERISTICS
Example: The sun causes sunburns. Therefore, the planet would be better off without the sun.

27. BLINDING FLASHES OF THE OBVIOUS
Example: If everyone had more money, we could eliminate poverty.

28. BLAMING THE TOOL
Example: I bought an encyclopedia but Iím still stupid. This encyclopedia must be defective.

29. HALLUCINATIONS OF REALITY
Example: I got my facts from a talking tree.

30. TAKING THINGS TO THEIR ILLOGICAL CONCLUSION
ExampIe: If you let your barber cut your hair, the next thing you know heíll be lopping off your limbs!

31. FAILURE TO UNDERSTAND WHY RULES DONíT HAVE EXCEPTIONS
Example: It should be legal to shoplift, as long as you donít take enough to hurt the companyís earnings.

32. PROOF BY LACK OF EVIDENCE
Example: Iíve never seen you drunk, so you must be one of those Amish people.

 
From: The Joy of Work: Dilbert's Guide to Finding Happiness at the Expense of Your Co-workers. By Scott Adams
   
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